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We provide confidential one-to-one victim support to those suffering abuse and injustice.
We provide confidential one-to-one victim support to those suffering abuse and injustice.
We provide confidential one-to-one victim support to those suffering abuse and injustice.
At True Honour, we are driven by a single, powerful mission: to stop abuse and save lives. We offer crucial support to victims of honour-based violence (HBV), forced marriage, and female genital mutilation (FGM).
Our approach is rooted in personal experience, providing a unique perspective that fosters real change. Through comprehensive training, tireless advocacy, and direct support, we empower survivors, influence policies, and build safer communities. Join us in breaking the silence, restoring dignity, and creating a world where no one has to suffer in the name of ‘honour.’
True Honour was born out of the tragedy of Surjit Kaur Athwal, who was murdered in 1998 in a so-called ‘honour killing’. Surjit’s story is one of betrayal and unimaginable loss—betrayed by those closest to her, she was lured from the UK to India, where she was killed for allegedly bringing shame upon her family. Despite the horrific circumstances, her case marked a significant turning point in the fight against honour-based violence. The successful prosecution of those responsible, including family members, was a landmark case that sparked nationwide attention.
Surjit’s legacy lives on through True Honour. Her courage and the justice that followed inspire us to continue our work, ensuring that no other life is lost to such a barbaric and senseless act. We are committed to fighting for those who can’t fight for themselves, in Surjit’s memory and in the name of all victims of honour-based violence.
In 1998, Sarbjit Athwal was called by her husband to attend a family meeting. It looked like just another family gathering. An attractive house in west London, a large dining room, two brothers, their mother, one wife. But the subject they were discussing was anything but ordinary. At the head of the group sat the elderly mother. She stared proudly around, smiling at her children, then raised her hand for silence. ‘It’s decided then,’ the old lady announced. ‘We have to get rid of her.’
‘Her’ was Surjit Athwal, Sarbjit’s sister-in-law. Within three weeks of that meeting, Surjit was dead: lured from London to India, drugged, strangled, and her body dumped in the Ravi River, never to be seen again.
After the killing, risking her own life, Sarbjit fought secretly for justice for nine long, scared years. Eventually, with immense bravery, she became the first person within a murderer’s family ever to go into open court in an honour killing trial as the Prosecution’s key witness, and the first to waive her anonymity in such a trial. As a result of her testimony, the trial led to the first successful prosecution of an honour killing without the body ever being found.
But her story doesn’t end there. Since the trial, her life has been threatened; her own husband arrested after an allegation of intimidation. Shamed is a story of fear and of horror – but also of immense courage, and a woman who risked everything to see that justice was done.